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Back-to-School Anxiety: Tips for Teens & Parents

Ivy Griffin

The start of a new school year can bring excitement, but it can also stir up anxiety for both teens and parents. Shifts in routine, academic pressure, social dynamics, and worries about the unknown can make this transition feel overwhelming. If your family is experiencing heightened stress as summer ends, you’re not alone. Many families in Sacramento and beyond are working through similar struggles. The good news is that back-to-school anxiety can be managed with awareness, support, and intentional coping strategies.

Why Back-to-School Anxiety Happens

Back-to-school anxiety often arises because transitions challenge our sense of stability. Teens may worry about fitting in, making friends, or keeping up with academic demands. Parents, on the other hand, may feel pressure to manage logistics, help with homework, and ensure their child’s emotional well-being. These stressors combine into a household atmosphere where everyone feels a bit on edge.

Anxiety during this time isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s the body and brain trying to prepare for change. Understanding this can help families respond with compassion rather than frustration.

Signs Your Teen Might Be Struggling

Not all anxiety shows up as obvious worry. Sometimes, it comes through behaviors and physical symptoms. Teens may:

  • Complain of frequent stomachaches or headaches

  • Struggle with sleep or resist waking up in the morning

  • Withdraw from family or friends

  • Show irritability or mood swings

  • Avoid conversations about school

As a parent, noticing these patterns early can help you offer support before the stress grows larger.

Practical Tips for Parents

Parents often want to “fix” anxiety quickly, but the goal is more about guiding your teen to build tools for managing their emotions. A few helpful approaches include:

  • Normalize the nerves. Remind your teen that feeling anxious before big changes is completely natural.

  • Ease into routines. Start adjusting sleep schedules, meal times, and morning routines at least a week before school begins.

  • Practice coping skills. Encourage relaxation techniques like deep breathing or short mindfulness exercises.

  • Open the conversation. Create space for your teen to share fears without rushing to reassure or solve them.

Even small steps like preparing clothes or packing backpacks the night before can lower morning stress levels for everyone.

Helping Teens Build Confidence

Anxiety shrinks when teens feel equipped to handle challenges. Building confidence is less about pushing them into overwhelming situations and more about helping them take gradual steps. Encourage them to set small, realistic goals, such as introducing themselves to one new classmate or joining a club that aligns with their interests. Celebrate progress, not perfection.

If your teen has supportive peers, encourage connection. Social support is one of the strongest protective factors against anxiety. And remember, your presence as a calm and steady role model is powerful. Teens notice when parents take care of their own stress and model healthy coping.

Tips for Teens to Manage Anxiety Themselves

While parents play an important role, it’s also empowering for teens to learn strategies they can use independently. A few tools that can make a difference include:

  • Breathing exercises. Slow, steady breaths can calm the nervous system when anxiety spikes. Even a few minutes can help.

  • Grounding techniques. Focusing on the five senses—what you can see, hear, touch, smell, and taste—can bring attention back to the present moment.

  • Positive self-talk. Encourage your teen to replace “I can’t handle this” with “I can take it one step at a time.”

  • Movement. Physical activity, whether it’s walking, stretching, or playing a sport, helps release built-up stress.

  • Breaks from technology. Constant notifications and social media can heighten anxiety. Setting boundaries around screen time creates space for rest.

When teens have their own set of tools, they not only feel more capable but also gain confidence that anxiety doesn’t have to control them. Parents can support by encouraging practice without judgment or pressure.

When to Seek Professional Support

Sometimes, despite best efforts, anxiety lingers or intensifies. If your teen’s worries begin interfering with sleep, eating, academics, or daily life, it may be time to seek extra help. Therapy offers a safe space for teens to process their fears, learn coping tools, and feel less alone in their experiences.

At Thrive Therapy & Counseling, we work with teens and parents navigating anxiety during life transitions like back-to-school. Our therapists use approaches tailored to each individual, helping families find practical solutions and deeper understanding.

Supporting Families in Sacramento and Online

The back-to-school season doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. With the right support, teens and parents can move through this transition with more ease, confidence, and connection.

If your family is navigating back-to-school anxiety, our team at Thrive Therapy & Counseling is here to help. We provide anxiety therapy in Sacramento and nearby areas like West Sacramento, Elk Grove, Natomas, and Davis. We offer both in-person and online sessions to fit your family’s needs.

You don’t have to face this season alone. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and explore how therapy can support your teen and your family.