ILEANA ARGANDA-STEVENS
Pronouns: she/her
Work schedule: Sun - Th
Therapist in Sacramento, CA
My approach to counseling for adults
You’re a thoughtful and caring, and always try to be helpful toward others, but you struggle to show yourself the same care. You’re able to anticipate others’ needs but you have trouble recognizing to your own. Maybe you think of yourself as a “people pleaser,” or perhaps you’ve learned that the most important thing is to be available to others and put your own needs on the backburner. You feel depleted, overwhelmed, and sometimes taken-for-granted. I totally get it. It’s exhausting being there for everybody but yourself. But did you know that caring for ourselves is one of the best things we can do for others? Yep! It’s not selfish — far from it!
I approach therapy as authentically as I can. I’m genuinely curious about my clients and I offer perspective, validation, empathy, compassion and humor in sessions.
Being human can be both wonderful and extremely challenging at times, and I try to bring that awareness into my work with clients, helping them to recognize and appreciate their own needs, boundaries, and humanity. I use an integrated therapeutic approach combining client-centered, cognitive behavioral (CBT), and compassion-focused therapy. I also explore how systemic oppression, culture, familial values and expectations shape our experiences and personal beliefs about ourselves and the world.
Whether you’re an over-thinker, an introvert looking for acceptance and coping tools, you’re navigating childhood trauma or boundaries and communication with your family, or you struggle with shame and self-criticism, and you’re ready to start prioritizing yourself the way you’ve prioritized others, I’d love to support you!
my specialties include young adults, low self-esteem, and trauma therapy:
Adults in their 20’s and 30’s (i.e. young adult counseling)
People who struggle with boundaries, perfectionism and practicing self-acceptance and self-care
Individuals experiencing low self-esteem, feeling like they’re “never enough”, or not confident
Trauma therapy for individuals who have experienced CEN (Childhood Emotional Neglect), complex trauma (CPTSD), complex family relationships, painful life events (even if you’re not sure it qualifies as a trauma)
Therapy for anxiety (generalized, acute, social anxiety, worry, rumination)
Deep thinkers who want to use their insight and self-awareness to make meaningful changes in their lives!
some of my therapy approaches:
Person-centered, relational, and humanistic therapies
Feminist therapy
Trauma therapy
EDUCATION/Previous counseling experience
I received my master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from John F. Kennedy University and worked for two-and-a-half years counseling children and their families in Citrus Heights before starting at Thrive in 2020.
WORK IN EDUCATION
I enjoyed six years working in the public school system as an instructional aide for teens with special needs. During my time in special education, I enjoyed coming up with creative ways to connect with students and help them learn. I also enjoyed assisting students to express themselves creatively through art.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Sacramento.
I am a LMFT #129032, Program Manager, and a Supervisor at Thrive.
More about me
When I’m not working, I love watching movies at home or at Tower Theatre, walking around Sacramento, and relaxing with my cat. I also love journaling, reading, and listening to podcasts. I believe laughter is a powerful connector and healer so I try to laugh as much as I can whether it’s in session with clients, at home watching my favorite shows, or with loved ones.
Pronouns: she/her