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Childhood Emotional Neglect: A Hidden Trauma

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Childhood emotional neglect often lurks in the shadows, affecting individuals long into adulthood. Although it might not leave visible scars, the emotional impact can be profound and lasting. Many people who experienced emotional neglect as children grow up feeling unworthy, disconnected, or even confused about their own needs and feelings. Understanding this hidden trauma is the first step towards healing.

At Thrive Therapy & Counseling, we recognize the unique challenges faced by those who have endured childhood emotional neglect. Our therapists work with clients to uncover these buried emotions and help them find pathways to recovery. If you suspect that emotional neglect might be impacting your life, exploring childhood emotional neglect (CEN) therapy can be an enlightening start.

Childhood emotional neglect occurs when parents or caregivers fail to respond adequately to a child's emotional needs. Unlike physical abuse, which is more easily identified, emotional neglect is often subtle and unspoken. The effects can manifest in adulthood as feelings of emptiness, difficulty in relationships, and a pervasive sense of not belonging. Many people don't realize that these feelings stem from unmet emotional needs during childhood.

Recognizing the Signs of Emotional Neglect

Identifying emotional neglect in your past can be challenging, especially since it doesn't leave a physical trace. However, there are common signs that might indicate you've experienced this hidden trauma. Feelings of low self-esteem and chronic self-doubt often plague those who were emotionally neglected. They may struggle to identify their own emotions or have difficulty trusting others.

Adults who suffered from emotional neglect as children might find themselves feeling detached in relationships. They often fear intimacy and find it hard to rely on others. This emotional distance can lead to isolation, even when surrounded by loved ones. Additionally, many people experience a constant feeling of emptiness, as if something significant is missing from their lives.

Understanding these signs can help individuals begin the journey of self-awareness and healing. Recognizing the impact of emotional neglect is essential to addressing its effects and moving towards recovery.

The Long-Term Effects of Childhood Emotional Neglect

While childhood emotional neglect doesn't always manifest immediately, its long-term effects can be substantial. The lack of emotional support during formative years can lead to significant challenges in adulthood. Many people develop coping mechanisms that are maladaptive, such as people-pleasing or perfectionism.

These coping strategies can lead to anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues. For some, the inability to connect emotionally with others results in a cycle of unsatisfying relationships. This can perpetuate feelings of loneliness and isolation, making it difficult to establish healthy, fulfilling connections.

In therapy, individuals can explore these long-term effects and work on building healthier patterns. By addressing the root causes of these feelings, therapy provides a pathway to healing and self-discovery.

How Therapy Can Help

Therapy offers a safe space to explore the impacts of childhood emotional neglect. At Thrive Therapy & Counseling, our therapists are equipped to guide individuals through this complex journey. We offer a variety of therapeutic approaches, including cognitive-behavioral therapy, expressive arts therapy, and brainspotting, each tailored to fit the unique needs of our clients.

Through therapy, individuals can learn to recognize and validate their own emotions. This process involves identifying long-held beliefs about oneself and challenging negative self-perceptions that stem from emotional neglect. By developing self-compassion and self-awareness, clients can begin to heal and build stronger emotional connections.

Therapy is not just about addressing the past but also about equipping individuals with the tools to create a more fulfilling future. Learning to set boundaries and communicate effectively are key components of this transformative process.

Practical Strategies for Healing

Healing from childhood emotional neglect involves both emotional and practical strategies. One effective approach is to practice mindfulness, which helps individuals become more aware of their emotions and reactions. Mindfulness can aid in breaking the cycle of emotional suppression.

Additionally, setting realistic goals and celebrating small achievements can build confidence and a sense of accomplishment. This helps counteract the feelings of inadequacy that often accompany emotional neglect. Engaging in self-care activities, such as journaling or creative expression, can also facilitate emotional processing and healing.

Connecting with supportive networks, whether through therapy groups or community resources, provides an opportunity to share experiences and gain insights from others who understand the journey. These strategies empower individuals to take control of their healing process.

Building Healthier Relationships

Rebuilding trust and forming healthier relationships is a crucial aspect of recovering from emotional neglect. It requires time, patience, and the willingness to be vulnerable. Understanding your own needs and communicating them effectively is vital to fostering meaningful connections.

Therapeutic techniques, like walk and talk therapy, offer a dynamic way to address these challenges. This approach combines the benefits of physical movement with therapeutic conversation, promoting openness and connection.

By learning to trust oneself and others, individuals can overcome the barriers that emotional neglect has erected. Therapy helps to rebuild self-worth and encourages the development of authentic, supportive relationships.

Discovering Self-Worth Beyond Childhood Neglect

Childhood emotional neglect might be a hidden trauma, but it doesn't have to define your future. At Thrive Therapy & Counseling, we offer both in-person sessions in the Greater Sacramento area, including West Sacramento, Elk Grove, Natomas, and Davis, as well as online therapy across California. Our therapists are dedicated to helping you uncover your true worth and build a life filled with genuine connections.

If you're ready to explore how therapy can support your healing journey, we encourage you to contact us today for a consultation. Understanding and addressing the impacts of emotional neglect is the first step towards a more fulfilling life.